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Transgender Fiction Nomination

Approximately a year ago, Tom Léger wrote a column for OP about the incredible importance of trans inclusion in the newly minted transgender categories in the Lambda Literary Awards. I thought his post was huge and crucial, especially since many of the G&L writers I follow on Twitter and elsewhere were all, “Hooray for the splendid changes!,” and more than one of them cisplained the whole thing to me when I suggested that maybe they were a bit too enthused.  This year, I am pleased to announce that at least two of the five finalists for Transgender Fiction are actually trans – I don’t wish to out anyone (although I suppose if she identifies herself as a trans woman, I probably can), but: one is a trans woman, and one of them is a trans man (me). Of the other three, I have no idea what the gender identity/expression of one of the authors is, and the other two are (to the best of my knowledge, and I apologize if I am wrong) cis women who, I am told, are really strong trans allies. (One of the finalists is Tristan Taormino; you may wish to peruse this glowing review of Tristan’s book here.)

Full disclosure: I have not read any of the other books in this category, for a variety of reasons. I have no idea whether they’re “good” or “bad.” I do know, based on reading reviews and summaries on different websites, that one book features a young trans woman as the protagonist, and one features a young trans man, also as the main character. In the third novel, I’m unclear about the gender identity of the protagonist – based on what I read online, I feel like the character has switched genders, but not in a trans way (that is, without the taking-control-of-our-own-stories level of action that I love so much in trans people). My book, meanwhile, has a trans author (obviously), and includes stories about trans men. [Read full post...]

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[RAFE'S BLOG] Oh, Portland

by Rafe on March 22, 2012

So here I am in PDX, the place where everything broke.  In some ways this is good – I get to see my awesome kids, which is a huge plus – but being here makes me anxious.

Although I didn’t live here very long, the city holds a massive spot in my timeline. In Dr. Who terms, my brief life in Portland is a “fixed point” on my continuum; whatever else I could go backwards or forward and change, those months still have to happen.

Portland, as you probably know by now (gods know I go on about it enough, here and elsewhere), is where I learned a) that change had to happen RIGHT NOW and b) how, sort of, to go about it. It’s where my life of not playing football broke my heart, among other things. Some of them are stories I can’t tell you, because either I’m not ready to write about them, or because I don’t want to write about the people involved (or, mostly, both). [Read full post...]

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A Tale (and a Tail) as Old as Time

by Rafe March 8, 2012

Last week, the State of Maryland signed the Civil Marriage Protection Act into law, making Maryland the most recent state to grant marriage equality to queers who want to wed. Generally, this is a good thing. It’s nice when people can get married, if that’s what they want to do, and so far (he said, [...]

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The Glowing Screen of ZOMG You’ve Got to be Kidding

by Rafe February 27, 2012

Recently, the queer blogosphere has been up in arms about celebrities (often cisgender gay men) flinging around the tr—y word. I think this is valuable, although gods know there are many much more pressing issues facing trans people (jobs, housing, getting to use the right bathroom, not being stabbed at bus stops in major cities, [...]

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Books, Glorious Books…

by Rafe February 20, 2012

As you may have gathered, I love books more than I love most things. More than kittens or cheese, which is saying a lot. When I broke my leg playing tag at my grandparents’ house, the summer I turned seven, I was not all, “Woe is me, no more sports!” Not hardly. I was all, [...]

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Sometimes who we are is where we came from

by Rafe February 10, 2012

The other day, casting about for an assignment for my comp classes that might amuse as well as educate them, I decided to have them write a short analytical essay about how the idea of “going home” is conveyed in three songs. One of the songs I chose for this task is Miranda Lambert’s country [...]

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Stealth Fighters

by Rafe February 2, 2012

This weekend, the NGLTF’s Creating Change conference came to Baltimore. Not long ago, I would have been scrambling to get my act together and participate, but this year I have felt surprisingly distant from the people I know who were there. This feels weird to me. Yesterday, for example, a friend let me know that [...]

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I am not a teachable moment! Except that I am.

by Rafe January 27, 2012

It’s time to go back to school, and that means it’s time to unfurl my Beginning of Semester List of Things to Do: Go buy more pens, because I never have enough (*looks around at scores of pens all over everything already*) Figure out what tie to wear for the first day of each class [...]

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Writerly Adventures with the Way-Back Machine

by Rafe January 18, 2012

The other day a friend of mine from Long Ago posted a link to an online photo gallery, and I have been thinking about it since.  The friend is a woman I knew during my Denver years, when we worked together at the iconic Tattered Cover bookstore, and she has recently started to make a [...]

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Who are you, if you don’t know who you are?

by Rafe January 11, 2012

Last night my Person and I went to see War Horse, but I don’t want to talk about that.  What has stuck in my mind was one of the trailers, for a film called The Vow.  I’ve seen ads on TV for it as well – one of those tragic, inspiring, heartbreaking, etc., movies that [...]

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